Willpower

By: Baumeister and Tierney - Available at
AmazonThis books covers a series of experiments that studied willpower and makes recommendations on how to deal with it. One highlight of the book was an interview with David Blane, magician and endurance artist. Apparently, he's not too different from us when it comes to willpower, but is able to hold his breath for 17 minutes and forgo food for 44 days.
So what did I learn? First, willpower is not a heroic quality that is given to some and a moral failing plaguing others. We are all in the same boat, more or less. So why do some folks seem immune to temptation while others are seemingly slaves to it?
Willpower is an exhaustible resource that needs to be focussed where it will make the biggest impact. If one uses their willpower to create a habit, that habit will be transferred to the auto-pilot department of the brain and you will continue to perform that habit without exhausting your willpower.
Other tactics such as pre-commitment, planning, monitoring, structuring your life to eliminate temptations, can help reduce the demand on your willpower. In general, it seems the more you utilize your willpower to fight, the less fun life is. My favorite is re-structuring life; e.g. don't fight TV, just cut the cable. Another tactic is to tell yourself you will enjoy the temptation later. Procrastinating on the vice apparently dulls your need for it but gives enjoyment through anticipation. Fighting fire with fire!
Your reserve of willpower is unfortunately the same bucket of energy you use to make decisions. Not just, "should I eat this doughnut?" But also to make decisions about important things in life, work, and play. The more of this energy you have at the time of decision making, the more likely you will choose the long term solution over instant gratification. So use your willpower for fun things!
Can we increase our willpower? It seems like exercising our willpower in moderate amounts leads to increases in the daily reserve. For example, after doing your best to work on your posture for two weeks, the willpower available on any given day will be a little bit better. I imagine there's a limit, but it apparently improves a little. Low blood sugar also degrades willpower. While you can use sugar water to boost it, it's healthier to use protein. Of course, sleep is requisite for restoring willpower.
It was fun to learn about different tools psychologists use to quantify willpower (m&m's are apparently indespensible). The book also tied together the messages of many of my favorite authors, David Allen, Tim Ferriss, and Seth Godin. Psychology is fascinating.
Parental nags, e.g. keep your room/workspace clean, are experimentally proven to boost efficiency. Instilling self control early in life also has been proven to impact success later in life.
The final kicker: my favorite insight into procrastination and two elegant solutions. Procrasinators don't just sit around. They busy themselves with something else that isn't as important. Solution 1, keep a list of such tasks in descending order of priority. Allow yourself to avoid task #1 by working on task#2 (productive procrastination). The most elegant tactic: all or nothing. Set aside time to do task #1, if you don't feel like doing it, don't; however, you cannot do anything else in the meantime. You have to sit there.
Posted: October 07, 2011 |
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